Sunday, December 7, 2014

Playing With My Hair

With all the difficulties I face trying to squeeze a male body into female form, I have one advantage over you guys.  It's not innate, but I take solace where I can.  It's hair.

I wear wigs.  Wigs dramatically change your appearance.  They're easy to wear.  You pop one on and pull it off.  No complex application, like with makeup.

After trying dozens of wigs, I finally found three whose styles appeal to me.  The first one is short in length; the second and third are long.  All have slight waves.  Lately, you've been seeing my third wig which was a gift from a friend.  My second (worn for a year before the third) is about the same length but straighter with blond highlights.  It's been a while since I wore my first wig.  Recently I thought, why not bring it out of retirement and back into active duty?

I've always loved the first wig because the hair-style is attractive and easy.  It suits me.

Since wigs are simple to use, I'm going to start mixing 'em up.  Some outfits will have one; others another.  I hope that doesn't confuse you.  You're still seeing me and not my sister. 

(BTW, I don't have a sister.  I'm not as lucky as Megan & Nora who share the blog Two Birds.  It took me a while to be able to tell them apart; they're both so damn cute.)

In the pictures below, I'm aiming for a vision of femininity.  It's taken me a long time to be able to learn how to pose and stand gracefully.  While I may not be fully there yet, I'm moving toward my goal, don't you think?


 
 

33 comments:

  1. I think your poses are very graceful. :-D Especially the second one. It looks very natural and feminine to me.

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  2. I love this polka dot dress on you; it's very flattering and you've styled it fabulously. I also really like the idea of wearing different wigs with different outfits; it sounds fun!

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  3. This is one of my favourite looks of yours. Super classy. And if I remember how to phrase it correctly...you would "pass" easily wearing this.

    I too love wigs although I have yet to wear one on the blog and I have yet to wear one out of the house other than for Halloween. They can be a nice surprise for your partner and a fun way of discovering different sides of yourself.

    bisous
    Suzanne
    http://www.suzannecarillo.com

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    1. Exactly! Just imagine the looks of surprise on your family.

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    2. I even have a blue wig! In fact having a red wig partially got me thinking I wanted to start dying my hair red. I'm a natural blond.

      I wanted to go down to his office once when he was still practising corporate law with a wig on...just to really freak him out! LOL I never had the guts to go through with it though.

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  4. Great dress and you look awesome. You always pose well- I could take lessons from you :)

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  5. you look great! i love your wigs. it's so cool that you can play with different hair styles and colours and lengths!

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  6. You look great! That dress looks amazing on you. :)

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  7. Wigs are awesome and so easy to change your look with. I've never worn a full-on wig but I do occasionally sport some falls :) Love the red purse with the dress!

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  8. I like your varied wigs!! I'm longijg to try a decent 1920's finger wave style bob!
    The poses are doing great-we all struggle with the pose I think. I more often just stand there and grin which is awkward at times! X

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    1. You may not be aware of this, but everyone raised as a girl (including you) has heaps more unconscious femininity in their physical stance and movements than I will ever achieve. It's a truth I have to acknowledge.

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  9. You look wonderful in polka dots! Very ladylike with a little sass from the bright bag. And wigs = automatic good hair day, right? ;)

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  10. I think your poses always look graceful, and I love your red bag with this outfit. Just that pop of colour is great. I want to get a wig in a bob style with a fringe, where do you purchase yours from? online by any chance.

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  11. Wigs are fun I love seeing you a Brunette. It looks great on you. I also love polka dots with red bag! charming!
    P.S. I thought Nora and Megan are the same person for some time, and thought I simply could not remember the name, lol

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  12. by the way, you waist line looks so ladylike in this dress! perfect!

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  13. Ooo! I really like this wig on you! I'm looking forward to seeing you switch it up.

    Lisa.

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  14. Certainly more graceful than me! And I'm going with the shorter hair.

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  15. I definitely think your posing has improved! Especially with your confidence! I love that you have the option of changing your hair at the drop of a wig. ;) Hair itself is such a hard thing, especially when you can't change color or texture without many chemicals and time. But wigs are awesome that you can try and change and bring a whole new you about.

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  16. I too could take some posing lessons from you! And even though I do NOT like polkadots for myself...I was wondering if I could borrow that dress! (the polkadot aversion goes a long way back to when I was about 4 years old. My mother INSISTED that I, being the only girl in the middle of four boys, would look like a ...GIRL! So, she put these overalls on me. Brown with white dots, and ruffles on the straps. I HATED them even at the ripe old age of 4. And distinctly once going outside and taking them right off! I probably got a spanking for doing that. Hence: I CANNOT do polka dots on myself! And, for that matter, neither can I DO ruffles. Ever!)

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    1. Amusing personal history. Thanks for sharing.

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  17. Your posing is still more graceful and feminine than mine!

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    1. Thank you for saying that, buddy, but only in staged photos. In real life, you move with more grace and fluidity than I do. I carry my earlier training in masculine body-movement.

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  18. Your posing is great. I have a very hard time with posing. I think that's why I'm such a fan of candid pics of myself---no posing necessary! I love wigs, but the only wig stores around here are so pricey.

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  19. I Love this outfit! It classic, yet sexy. I love your wigs, I used to have a bright pink one in high school, it was the color of your blog! If I still had it, I would send it your way.

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  20. I like this wig! Glad you brought it back! It goes perfectly with the classic dress. And your posing looks great to me!

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  21. Nice photos Ally.
    I've had a few wigs over time, but I spent a little more on my last one and even had it trimmed to the shape of my face too. I braved going along to a wig shop and got some sound advice in helping choosing a wig. Once happy with my selection the lady in the shop trimmed it to shape for me.

    I think you're nearly there with the look. Do you use hip and bottom shaping? That helps make body shape more feminine.

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    1. I thought about pads but they seem too artificial for me. Plus, I'm really only presenting as female here and not in real life, so there's less need to mimic a female shape. I want to be myself, not an artificial and inadequate version of someone else.

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  22. You look so graceful and feminine. And may I just say that your accessories are gorgeous! ;)

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  23. I've been thinking about wear wigs. They're easier and quicker than styling everyday!

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  24. Great posing and this is an awesome wig. I'm a fan of wigs too! So fun.

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  25. You look extremely classy, feminine and beautiful. The outfit and hairdo are very flattering. You couldn't have done a better job putting together this ensemble...even adding the pop of red with your handbag. This one makes my Top 10 list.

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  26. From one wig wearer to another, I can definitely say that you know how to rock, style and make these your own in such an awesome way. If there more mid-century styles out there that weren't glaringly Halloween costume-y (there's soooo few), I'd be following your lead and switch my faux locks up more often, too. Perhaps one day the wig market will finally expand on that front and I can do just that. Thankfully for now I've got my trusty auburn curls to keep me looking the vintage part from a hair perspective.

    Very elegant and timelessly feminine ensemble, I should add.

    ♥ Jessica

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