Sunday, May 22, 2011

Real Friends

I've always valued good friends and now, as I journey toward a more authentic life, I cherish them even more.  People who are willing to support someone as unusual as me deserve standing ovations.  They are real friends.

I spent time today with Debbie, one of my best friends in real-life.  I met Debbie twelve years ago when we both belonged to a motorcycle club.  I liked her immediately and have always wanted to remain her friend.

Reading my blog, Debbie noticed that although my clothing choices are acceptable, my skill at applying makeup is poor.  I lack training at makeup and my unguided experiments are sad failures.  I flail around like a tween without a clue.

Debbie, being a kind and helpful person, offered to assist me.  Today, she instructed me in Makeup 101.  She even gave me a little gift-bag of makeup tools and materials.  How sweet is that?!

Here are a few pics of the two of us.  The best part of the day was not the makeup lesson, it was the time spent with a wonderful friend.  Thank you, Debbie!




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33 comments:

  1. AnonymousMay 22, 2011 at 7:53 PM

    You look amazing! What a wonderful friend you have.

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  2. SheilaMay 22, 2011 at 8:00 PM

    Wow, your makeup looks fantastic! What a good friend to gently guide you on this.

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  3. DianaMay 22, 2011 at 8:10 PM

    You look fantastic! Sometimes I feel like a tween trying to put on makeup too - my mom never wears a lot of makeup, and I didn't have friends who wore a lot of makeup growing up, so I didn't have anyone to teach me. I still haven't really figured out eyeliner :/

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  4. TanviMay 22, 2011 at 8:20 PM

    I can see the difference in the make up!!! That's a real sweet friend you have :)

    ♡ from © tanvii.com

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  5. AshleyMay 22, 2011 at 8:45 PM

    OMG! It looks so good! I never really thought your make-up skills were lacking before, but wow...what a difference. Nice work, Debbie!

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  6. TiffMay 22, 2011 at 9:07 PM

    What a great friend, it is hard to find a truly good friend! I love the make up! Your eyes especially "pop"!

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  7. EmmaMay 22, 2011 at 9:09 PM

    WOW! You look Super! I really Love your makeup. Is your friend a makeup artist? If she isn't she should be. She is Great!

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  8. LikeSpinningPlatesMay 22, 2011 at 9:59 PM

    wowww you look gorgeous!! You look so different. Especially love the eye makeup! That was so sweet of her to teach you some things. I need lessons too because I wear my makeup the EXACT Same way every single day ahah. Exact same colors and everything. I'm like a cartoon character.

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  9. AleciaMay 22, 2011 at 10:24 PM

    When I saw the small photo in my reader -I assumed it was your sister- Debbie did an amazing job!! Love the eyes.

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  10. AshelleMay 22, 2011 at 10:24 PM

    Wow. You look great! Love the eyeliner which makes your eyes pop. Debbie is talented with makeup and seems like a nice person.

    Its amazing the difference when you have a friend who's more knowledgable with cosmetics make you over.

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  11. Fashion Confessions of a MommyMay 22, 2011 at 11:09 PM

    True friends are always there for you no matter what. She is a lovely lady and you guys look so great together. I need some make-up tips too. :)
    Daphne.
    http://fashiondivamommy.blogspot.com

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  12. Kristen BombeckMay 22, 2011 at 11:16 PM

    I am LOVING you with makeup on. What a darling friend to help you. I suck at doing makeup so I make my friends do mine too. Gorgeous.

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  13. dimiMay 23, 2011 at 1:06 AM

    I love Debbie! What a sweet thing to do!! She really cares for you buddy! Your new make-up is awesome! Good job!! If I could come for a coffee, I'd teach you "smoky eyes" look - that's my favorite type of make-up! Kisses :)

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  14. AngelaMay 23, 2011 at 4:04 AM

    That difference is amazing! Wow. I am gobsmacked.

    Ang xxx

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  15. LouiseMay 23, 2011 at 4:25 AM

    Wow you look stunning! Deb sounds like a great friend xx

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  16. Deb BMay 23, 2011 at 6:27 AM

    I'm the one who is blessed to have Ralph in my life. I had such a wonderful afternoon with you!

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  17. BombshelliciousMay 23, 2011 at 7:12 AM

    You look gorgeous with that makeup on xx

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  18. AnonymousMay 23, 2011 at 10:55 AM

    Wow, just wow, you look stunning. Real friends can be hard to come by, so cherish that gem that you've got there, although I know that you will:)

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  19. sara starMay 23, 2011 at 2:03 PM

    Just wow. What a difference that makes. Your make up doesn't look professional like a model, but it just looks like what regular women wear. And that is just perfect. Outstanding, great job Deb. What a real difference that makes.

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  20. Jenarcissist @ the closet narcissistMay 23, 2011 at 3:39 PM

    I second what Ashley said. I don't think you were floundering nearly as bad as YOU think you were. :) But the extra makeup really makes a difference and hurdles you right over the edge into all-out femininity! She really made your eyes stand out. Just lovely!

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  21. IsabelMay 23, 2011 at 6:47 PM

    you look gorgeous! i need debbie to give me some pointers!

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  22. SaraMay 23, 2011 at 6:52 PM

    Wow I love it! You have to take a crap load of close-ups because you don't and now I can see your eyes and smile! woot woot go Debbie!

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  23. The Closet ShopperMay 23, 2011 at 7:20 PM

    Great job Debbie! You look fantastic. And you look so happy.

    I can't believe how many of your posts I've missed. Having my sister here really took me away from the computer. But I had such a good time. You would love my sister. She's incredible.

    xoxo,
    Tracy

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  24. AudiMay 23, 2011 at 7:51 PM

    I also don't think you were floundering quite as much as you assumed, but a little instruction sure can make the whole process a lot easier. Debbie is a peach for offering to give you some pointers, and there's nothing more fun than making time for girly things!

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  25. SherinMay 24, 2011 at 6:58 AM

    Good friends really are to be cherished. She sounds really sweet. Ooo, a make up lesson. Hope you share tips!

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  26. UnknownMay 24, 2011 at 7:36 AM

    Wow - you look stunning love. Debbie sure did a good job and isn't it the best when we get to spend time with treasured friends.

    Love your green dress!!!

    Hope you're doing great and I was wondering how your friend Geoff is doing.

    Hugz

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  27. FuzzygaloreMay 24, 2011 at 7:45 AM

    Wow, Ralph! I have to echo what so many have already said. You look amazing. I especially love the last photo of you two together. You seem to be shining from the inside out.

    Your hair styling also looks more loose and a little more carefree. I think it suits you well!

    I'm glad you have people in your life like Debbie.

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  28. freedaMay 24, 2011 at 1:37 PM

    Wow, what a great difference!!

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  29. LorenaMay 24, 2011 at 1:52 PM

    How very sweet of her.
    I have to say that after that tutorial - your make up looks perfect. I really like the darker pencil around your eyes :)

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  30. brettMay 24, 2011 at 9:15 PM

    she did a great job
    your make up looks great
    brett

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  31. Dear GirlMay 24, 2011 at 11:58 PM

    please show us more close up photos like this, gosh, you look so pretty in closer pics!!!she did an excellent job!

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  32. citizen rosebudMay 25, 2011 at 12:02 AM

    I cherish good friends like Debbie- you make such a good point on how it's friends like this that help us go towards being more authentically true to ourselves. I am glad she can be there for you.

    And your makeup does look fantastic! I look forward in seeing your practice hand become more skilled at making you feel lovelier. xo. -Bella Q

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  33. JazminNovember 25, 2011 at 7:57 PM

    You look so feminine in this one! (I'm reading back on old posts)love this look. You have to recreate it again. Short or long your hair looks great too.


    -Jaz
    http://summerlilacs.blogspot.com/

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