Congratulations everyone on reaching a new opportunity for improving life. I hope and predict 2025 will be a banner year for all of us.
I have "brat" dreams for the new year. (If you don't know what brat means, click on it.)
It's valuable to have dreams: they can be targets to aim at. Perhaps we achieve them, perhaps not but their existence helps us orient effort.
Currently I have three dreams in my heart. The extent to which I realize them will depend on several external factors like generosity from the Crypto Gods. The more resources I receive, the stronger my ability to build these environments.
My close friends (like you!) know of my oldest, most precious dream: to create a safe, private space for living authentically. A "home" where I can wear dresses and bright red polish on my fingernails. A space where I can engage in various feminine activities like chatting with girlfriends over hot tea and watching rom-coms. Privacy shields us from ignorant hate (triggered by my mere existence). In public I can, for example, be attacked or even jailed for using the "wrong" bathroom. Life for transgender folk has gotten dramatically worse during the past decade.
A second dream is to build a private art museum. A place to display my growing collection of fine art. I've got the beginning of that assembly: numerous objects of world-class art. I hope to spend over $1 Million rounding out the collection. In addition to the art collection I want to display a group of objects having deep sentimental and personal meaning to me, like the first and last motorcycles I owned. And results of projects I completed, like a handmade 1950s-style cocktail dress designed collaboratively by my seamstress friend Aimee and me. It fits me like a glove, shimmers and excites me in all the right ways. I keep it on a dress-form stand and want to exhibit it like art.
My final dream is odd: a personal drag-race track. My visual impairments prevent me from driving or riding a motorcycle on the street or a racetrack because I can only see forward with narrow view. (My vision is like looking through a dirty submarine periscope.) I realized, however, that I can still operate a race-car or motorcycle in a straight line if there were no intersections or risks coming from outside my view. A drag-race strip! On one I could twist the throttle and let 'er rip. Get my motorcycle up to 140 mph. There are also non-street-legal race-cars that appeal to me which I could hurl down the strip with much enthusiasm. Right next to the track I'll build a large garage both for storing vehicles and hosting parties. Decorated with moto-sports memorabilia the space will house a kitchen, open bar, couches and items for entertaining. Come watch the races at Ally's Garage!
What dreams do you have for 2025 and beyond?
Happy New Year amigo!
ReplyDeleteBest wishes to you too!
DeleteMay your dreams come true, Ally. Happy New Year to you and Robin! xxx P.S. Had to click the link to find out the meaning of "brat", so I started the year by learning a new word!
ReplyDeleteYay! Happy New Year.
DeleteI think those are some excellent dreams. Carving out space for yourself to be yourself is a perfect goal.
ReplyDeleteI'm hoping to have more success with my health this year, which I hope will lead to success and improvement in all areas like work and working towards a more permanent living situation.
I wish that for you too. Health is our foundation; we need it to build other successes upon. Happy New Year.
DeleteI sincerely wish that you are able to complete your dream for a personal space this year. Life is too short to let another year go by without allowing your authentic self to be seen.
ReplyDeleteHappy New Year!
Suzanne
Thanks, chica. I'm feeling the same way. Hope you're healing and feeling better.
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