tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4885867892898159023.post14581429290688615..comments2024-03-27T21:17:11.920-04:00Comments on Shybiker: Gaining Insight, With Your HelpShybikerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15263331247319768989noreply@blogger.comBlogger20125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4885867892898159023.post-84616888088031072492013-03-02T15:53:29.892-05:002013-03-02T15:53:29.892-05:00I think you would have been similar, but not the s...<br />I think you would have been similar, but not the same. I think there are aspects to one's personality that are a product of the fact that you were raised as a certain gender, the treatment you receive as that gender, and then also, one's looks, in general, and how they are treated based upon that. For instance, I would have different aspects to my personality if I had been extremely tall, or extremely good looking, as an example. Obviously, there's no way to tell what would change, but it is interesting to ponder. I grew up with an older brother, that I looked up to, so I often wondered what it would have been like to be a boy.MaggleBishhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13184116728566243694noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4885867892898159023.post-10815317170923726012013-02-28T08:39:47.479-05:002013-02-28T08:39:47.479-05:00Your description of me is spot-on. You have super...Your description of me is spot-on. You have superb perceptive skill.Shybikerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15263331247319768989noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4885867892898159023.post-68542792408967499192013-02-28T07:55:51.547-05:002013-02-28T07:55:51.547-05:00I like what you said in the beginning of this post...I like what you said in the beginning of this post about realizing there is so much we don't truly know or understand until we have actually lived it. With that being said, my first reaction to your writing was that, as a person (not gender defined) your taste would be the same.... Because regardless of sexual orientation, you are -you- This applies to all of us. :)<br /><br />If I had to single out differences between male and female and uniform and creative I would note the following: As a man, you seem well dressed, friendly but more serious. As a woman, you seem well dressed, friendly, softer and happier... Even in a uniform style dress. And, even in said dress, you still have a unique style (which is what all true fashionistas aim for). <br /><br />mehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14457900572853874272noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4885867892898159023.post-77853762291497538382013-02-27T14:25:56.555-05:002013-02-27T14:25:56.555-05:00I'm an idealist :/I'm an idealist :/Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08774714614670643665noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4885867892898159023.post-27365592697406953192013-02-27T12:05:28.811-05:002013-02-27T12:05:28.811-05:00So behind on blog-reading, and obviously going bac...So behind on blog-reading, and obviously going backwards through the RSS Reader, so I am dying to see the "uniform" dress. You've made me realize that's probably what I wear to work every day, because it's required by the nature of the work place. <br /><br />As a man, you wear beautiful shirts (I know, I've seen them), and as a woman, you wear beautiful clothes. Simple, right? :)The Goodwill Fangirlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05845712888337339929noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4885867892898159023.post-54185523741726160882013-02-27T10:05:55.926-05:002013-02-27T10:05:55.926-05:00Beautiful post!
You always do something that I h...Beautiful post! <br />You always do something that I hope I learn to do and that's discover who you really and truly are inside. It's honest, insightful and refreshing...to have this sense of self discovery is a gift...often times I put on clothes that I think will somehow create a new me (at least for a day) or even disguise me but perhaps I need to see it as a new dimension of myself...J.https://www.blogger.com/profile/03366659424205890367noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4885867892898159023.post-2769755175223795672013-02-27T08:04:32.414-05:002013-02-27T08:04:32.414-05:00Thank you, Brenda. That's so sweet of you to ...Thank you, Brenda. That's so sweet of you to say.Shybikerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15263331247319768989noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4885867892898159023.post-15956019542263462532013-02-27T06:29:31.184-05:002013-02-27T06:29:31.184-05:00What an interesting and thought provoking post All...What an interesting and thought provoking post Ally. I have to honestly say that I've never once thought about your blog or you in a transgendered way .. you are you and I agree that you would be the same no matter what gender you are. When I first saw your comment on my blog and came over to look the only reason I didn't immediately take to it was nothing to do with whether you were a man or a woman but to do with the fact it was a fashiion blog. I am the least fashion conscious woman I know ... (though I do wear dresses sometimes I dont get the accessorising stuff at all .. unless it's finding a riding jacket to go with my riding boots :) Now that I've got to know you I keep reading not just because of your wonderful and quirky fashion sense but because you are an interesting, kind, intellegent person who I enjoy finding out more about ... Thanks for being you Ally :)Brendahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06395364582355269753noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4885867892898159023.post-47974385289598676912013-02-27T00:33:13.517-05:002013-02-27T00:33:13.517-05:00Have fun, play around, try on things you are think...Have fun, play around, try on things you are thinking, "Noooo" about and see what it looks like on--- you'd be amazed at what you never thought would be flattering could end up being flattering! I just want to acknowledge I hear what you're saying about the fact that you are delving deeper than just outfits choices here.<br />I am not sure if I would be exactly the same as a man, I don't really think I would be... I believe gender is a social construct and we've all been shaped/limited by it to varying degrees. Becky https://www.blogger.com/profile/02234081494939675926noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4885867892898159023.post-91185779584994131802013-02-26T23:47:08.642-05:002013-02-26T23:47:08.642-05:00I understand that. Sometimes life is too hard to ...I understand that. Sometimes life is too hard to care about clothes.Shybikerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15263331247319768989noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4885867892898159023.post-46707485211121862752013-02-26T23:46:21.138-05:002013-02-26T23:46:21.138-05:00I'm not saying the dress isn't pretty; it ...I'm not saying the dress isn't pretty; it is, which is why I bought it; what I'm saying is that the outfit wasn't my creation, it was someone else's and doesn't reflect my style. I hope you do steal the last line!Shybikerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15263331247319768989noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4885867892898159023.post-51196193080897477632013-02-26T22:02:54.187-05:002013-02-26T22:02:54.187-05:00I love the idea of doing man/woman outfit posts!
...I love the idea of doing man/woman outfit posts! <br /><br />I think many women have been in "uniform mode" at some point in life... when we just can't be bothered with the extra effort required to make ourselves look/feel special.lawyerdollhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16499257623425215954noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4885867892898159023.post-42762518779219171242013-02-26T21:56:05.084-05:002013-02-26T21:56:05.084-05:00I have to admit I love a uniform (mostly I love og...I have to admit I love a uniform (mostly I love ogling men in uniforms...) and so I think I completely missed the point of yesterday. I even went back and looked at the pictures again, and I still think you looked really pretty.<br /><br />I am very glad that you were able have such cool epiphanies from yesterday, and that you shared them here.<br /><br />And, I am totally stealing the last line of this post, I already have story swirling around.Heidihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02757679752138734026noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4885867892898159023.post-11401327656812823612013-02-26T20:42:37.831-05:002013-02-26T20:42:37.831-05:00Thank you, buddy, for your valid points. You make...Thank you, buddy, for your valid points. You make sense.Shybikerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15263331247319768989noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4885867892898159023.post-23546837822947091462013-02-26T20:10:23.835-05:002013-02-26T20:10:23.835-05:00YAY! So glad that you were able to get so much ins...YAY! So glad that you were able to get so much insight and so much food for thought! Looking forward to how this continues to churn over and over in your head!Carahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05841483032637664853noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4885867892898159023.post-36413473622111911812013-02-26T17:21:17.051-05:002013-02-26T17:21:17.051-05:00i'm not surprised that you would be the same p...i'm not surprised that you would be the same person male or female. thinking of even the most basic things - i like cream with my coffee, i like a certain kind of dental floss, i prefer dogs over cats...none of that would change if i were male?? i mean, we are who we are.<br /><br /><a href="http://www.rockoomph.blogspot.com/" rel="nofollow">rockoomph.blogspot.com</a><br /><a href="http://www.mobilemorsels.blogspot.com/" rel="nofollow">mobilemorsels.blogspot.com</a>oomph.https://www.blogger.com/profile/07167475589041134144noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4885867892898159023.post-79609113028366649372013-02-26T16:36:44.219-05:002013-02-26T16:36:44.219-05:00I think it's interesting that you feel you'...I think it's interesting that you feel you'd be the same person, regardless of your physical gender. I feel that so much of who we are as adults is based on the experiences that shaped us as children, teens (and yes, as adults). So if you had grown up female, your experiences would have been different. <br /><br />I wonder if being told to dress "male" your whole life has made you more sartorially expressive as a female. It almost seems like your clothing choices as a woman reflect years of being told to conform; now that you feel free to do what you want, you express it fully and without restraint.<br /><br />But then again, growing up female, I (and I'm sure most other women) experienced an enormous amount of societal pressure to conform in our own ways. This style is in, that trend is out. I remember the first time a friend flat-ironed my hair, it was like a revelation. Like being given an invitation to a secret society. I know my tastes in fashion were developed based on my very-female experiences in my teen years. That style is still evolving (and now with more input from myself, less from society, thank god), but its roots are and always will be in the "girl code" I learned growing up.<br /><br />Either way. This post is quite thought-provoking. Sorry for writing a novel :)Emmahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01034234729214154096noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4885867892898159023.post-49841798525598426122013-02-26T16:24:46.203-05:002013-02-26T16:24:46.203-05:00I think it's awesome that you got so much from...I think it's awesome that you got so much from one post. I missed what you were going for, probably because I do have that idea to craft clothing into something that represents my own efforts.<br /><br />I don't think gender changes who you are inside. No matter boy or girl inside, we're still all people with thoughts and ideas and loves.Megan Ghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10169811757787686946noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4885867892898159023.post-43222874695671309362013-02-26T15:27:31.590-05:002013-02-26T15:27:31.590-05:00I wish your point was true. Society doesn't p...I wish your point was true. Society doesn't permit crossing the gender line, at least not without consequence. Social ostracism is the price one pays for breaking that law.Shybikerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15263331247319768989noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4885867892898159023.post-66433562837395185142013-02-26T15:00:49.174-05:002013-02-26T15:00:49.174-05:00I suddenly wonder can't we just be gender-neut...I suddenly wonder can't we just be gender-neutral?<br />I mean you can have your boy-personality, but you can still be a girl too and wear a dress when you want.<br />I was born as a girl but when I was little I only played boy's games with boys, in elementary school I was over hyper wild (and even now I collect action figures and live stuff like Transformers and Star Wars).<br />People considered me as an "abnormal girl" as a kid, if I was a boy I would prolly have been normal then? <br />I think none is 100% one gender, even if the society gives such expectations.<br />Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08774714614670643665noreply@blogger.com